Rarely does a story capture such a wide range of emotions.

A seven year old boy named Asa died last Friday in New York, after a car accident. His parents departed from the norm, and wed at his funeral. During Asa’s life, he asked many times for them to make their union official with marriage. They told him they would, yet felt it was “superficial and not necessary”. Somehow, they were moved to become married in Asa’s honor, after his death.

At first, this feels a little shocking to read and hear. Yet I read the full article and watched the video a couple of times. I watched the healing swells of grief and love in peoples’ stories, tears, music and laughter. I sent the family my wishes for healthy grieving and peace in their hearts. Asa shines so brightly in the photos, it seems his all too brief presence will touch countless lives.

For me, this story vividly conveys the cathartic power of personalized ceremony.  Plus, the video illustrates how ceremony may pull community members together, as they collectively bear witness to living, loving and dying. Here is the CNN clip: NY Parent\’s honor son\’s wish

If you take a look at this, I am curious to hear your thoughts.

In love,

Kristine